Okay, so check this out…. what they don’t know is that we women are the shit. I mean we truly hold down the fort in this world. I had a conversation today with a bunch of men who think that the world MUST evolve around them; I beg to differ. See the problem with the world of today is that people have truly lost the meaning of love. I mean the real shit, forget about impressing your friends or fitting into society; REAL love is almost extinct. How could you sit down and be okay with your woman hurting? How could you sleep next to someone you lie to every day? Isn’t that some shit? Have we really forgotten the love that used to make marriages last for 50 years? Have we really forgotten how we should treat each other? As humans, forget male or female; we should know by now that some shit just don’t fly. “Treat people the way you want to be treated,” isn’t this the golden rule our parents, educators, family, and friends would tell us that we should live by? If you wouldn’t appreciate someone hurting or disrespecting you the way you are doing them, why do it? It’s hard to fall in love in this day and age when everyone seems to forgotten what that even is. Love isn’t just one solid meaning, there’s always different types of love: unconditional love you sometimes feels towards your family, agape love that you spread around to everyone regardless of the situation, or intimate love that you share with some outside a love for a family or friend. What they don’t know is that we are just tired. Tired of trying to “hold down the fort” and be that “ride or die” chick to a bunch of males that undervalue us. We are tired of trying to hold on to something that YOU have already established is not there: only difference is, YOU are the only person that knows it’s not going to work. What they don’t know is we deny the guilty pleasures of the world only to be solely connected to one person, we often deny our happiness to keep yours alive, and even sometimes we ignore the sense kicking in to our a brain that we should just leave you alone. For all the woman who’ve been through some nonsense to love someone, don’t give up hope. Love yourself in the meantime and know that there is someone out there who will give you the love and shelter you are hoping for and more.
Blessings from one stressed woman to another.